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Who am I? What am I?

Submitted by Dani on Monday, 9 November 2009One Comment

263350_3434I identified as bisexual in eighth grade when I was crushing on a girl a year younger than me. I identified myself as some type of transgender my sophomore year in high school.
I’m bio-female, but always felt a little different or apart from the females in my class. “Why am I not pretty like them?” I didn’t feel I wanted to be pretty, but I knew something was off. I ran with my shirt off until fourth grade, when I found out that wasn’t socially acceptable.
It wasn’t until I truly realized I COULD wear men’s clothing, that I really dug myself into sweaters, button down shirts, ties, etc. Sometimes I think that society’s rules really dominated my thoughts on how to act when I was younger, and the fact that I don’t feel female to male ALL the way. I lean to female to male, but I truly would like to appear male, but in my head, I feel genderless. So I’m a little stuck on my name right now because I do enjoy my nickname Dani – Danny is ok, but it’s foreign to me..) Anyway!
I’ve told my parents, and they’re a little skeptical, but I know they love me. They have accepted me for who I am, and for that I am eternally grateful and thankful, for I know that others are not so fortunate. This has turned into a rather long statement, but it feels good to write it down, hear it in my head, and see it with my eyes. Thank you to whoever read this, and good luck to you in the future!

Love,
Dani

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  • adrian said:

    I lived in LA for a long time and i met so many people who were going through the exact same thing as you. Society doesnt understand that people deal with these situations very often I commend you for sharing your story it will help someone who doesnt know what to do with these feelings. This will give people comfort knowing that there are others that are going through it as well.

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