Overwhelming relief
I ‘came out’ as a bisexual a little over two years ago. I had known that I couldn’t keep it a secret much longer and that my friends deserved to know the true. I was so scared, I started shaking when I told my closest friend. She was just dropping me off for work when I decided to almost spring it on her. There was this moment of complete silence. Then she looked at me, with the most loving face i’ve ever seen she said ‘I know, and I love you no matter what’. I couldn’t believe it. I was in aww, I made her come in with me and we talked for about an hour. I was so happy that I cried for hours. I am by far the most unemotional person, and I could not stop myself. I then called another friend and told her and she laughed at me and said ‘it’s about time!’. I am truley blessed by whatever forces there are to have friends as good as mine. It was the most emotionally draining and freeing experience of my life. My advice to anyone looking to ‘come out’ themselves, is DO IT. No matter the outcome, it is better to be yourself than to live the life of another. You won’t regret living YOUR life.
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I owe some of the hootspa to a boyfriend I had in my twenties who came out to me about liking to crossdress…then he said to me: now go tell/show the world that you like women “you know you do!” I have to admit being somewhat shocked. Not that he liked to crossdress, but that he knew that I longed to be with a woman. My dream was, at that point, to be with both men and women; often and always. He helped me come out.
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